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近日,人民日报和新华社纷纷转载一则新闻:26岁女孩江梦南,被清华大学录取为博士研究生。
你可能都猜到了,新闻会说这是“别人家的孩子”,是“美女学霸”,是“人生赢家”。
但这次,真的很意外,女孩是个双耳失聪的残疾人。
江梦南半岁时,由于耳毒性药物导致极重度神经性耳聋。这么小的孩子,还没感受到这个世界的万千声音,就永远生活在死寂里了。
正常来讲,这样的幼儿很难学会说话,也很难像个正常孩子一样成长。
但是在父母的悉心教育下,她用手感受声带震动,练习说话,仔细观察别人唇形,学习词句。一个发音重复一千次,她只有付出远远超越普通孩子的努力,才能像个正常人一样学习。
她的学习,不仅在课堂内,更在课堂外,还要不停的补习,才会跟上学校进度。尤其是听力和口语考试,中高考都必须为她特设考试方式才能进行。
即使这样,她依然实现了小学跳级,取得了优异成绩,进入了重点大学学习,学会了医生不建议的自行车和游泳项目。
江梦南的努力足以感动千万人,但她说自己是“持续性乐观开朗,间歇性灰心丧气”。
听不到世界的声音,还依然能阳光开朗,对生活充满感激,从不演苦情戏感动自己,这才是真正与命运和解。
人们常说要“努力到感动自己,拼搏到无能为力”,其实一这样想,你就输了!
很多时候,你所谓的努力,要是“一把辛酸泪”,那就是给自己加戏太多了。有些人的痛苦恰恰是另一些人的幸福,是苦还是乐,全在一念之间。
努力,不是与命运抗衡,而是与命运和解。

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这个女孩的经历,很容易让人联想到一个男孩。
他叫矣晓沅,是清华研二学生,曾登上《朗读者》节目,分享自己在方寸轮椅上的无限人生。
这个不幸的男孩,在6岁患上类风湿性关节炎,11岁并发双侧股骨头坏死,永远无法站立。
可能常人无法想象,他独自在家时,为了拿到地上的书,要折腾四十分钟,用尽各种工具,想尽各种办法,才能做到。
这样一个独立生活都困难的孩子,硬是凭着毅力,考入清华大学计算机系。你以为故事结束了?其实这才刚刚开始。
步入大学,别的同学都是蹦蹦跳跳的,可矣晓沅已经在轮椅上坐了十年,他身上几十个关节都不能像正常人一样活动,连做基本动作都极其艰辛。
同龄人在校园外飙车,他在学校里飙轮椅,竟然一节课都没耽误,成绩还稳步上升,最终拿到清华最高荣誉全校特等奖学金。
他说:“我有身体的束缚。但正是因为这种束缚的存在,才让我真正想要去挣脱这束缚、追寻自由。”
所以,在各种活动中,都有他的身影。在人工智能项目开发中,他更是主要参与人员,希望用科技改变残疾人的生活。
作为正常人,束缚我们的又是什么呢?能够追寻的自由又是什么呢?
如果想得明白,所有的努力将不再是苦痛,反而是一种快乐。
对大多数人来说,他们是被思想束缚了,而不能走得更远,是被表面的自由蒙蔽了,而错把虚度光阴当成终极乐趣。

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在四川成都的“新时代全国高等学校本科教育工作会议”上,教育部长陈宝生指出:中国教育“玩命的中学、快乐的大学”现象应该扭转。
其实,所谓“中学玩命”,不过是别人强加的努力,所谓“大学快乐”,不过是自己本不想努力。
两者之间的矛盾,有外在教育环境的影响,但更多的是个人内心的抉择。
一直以来,我们都被教导“学海无涯苦作舟”,想学习那都得“头悬梁”、“锥刺股”。可是这样的努力都是做秀给别人看,自己只能对学习内容产生深深的厌恶。
结果呢,大学成了痛苦的终点,能去上课,能交作业,就已经成为努力的人儿了。
可是那些努力,都变成痛苦的回忆,如果不能调动内心的力量,基本就是安慰自己的内心戏。和江梦南、矣晓沅相比,可能连九牛一毛都算不上。
努力,如果苦,那是选错了路!如果累,那是不够投入!
真正的努力,应该不苦不累,反而充满了激情,因为那是发自内心的向往和憧憬。
“合抱之木,生于毫末;九层之台,起于累土;千里之行,始于足下。”
向着未知前行,不秀、不晒,不急、不躁,不悲、不喜,不畏将来,不念过去。
要相信,你的人生,藏着所有的努力!
链接:https://www.jianshu.com/p/5b34366318be
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